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DR. AYSHA BUTT

MEDICAL DIRECTOR

Dr. Aysha Butt is the Medical Director of FROM MARS, and is a GP Partner at Woodcote NHS Medical Practice.

GMC NUMBER: 6164178

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Let’s talk about mental health

Your mental health is every bit as important as your physical health.

But us guys often aren’t as good at taking care of our mental health as we should be. Many of us don’t like talking about it or seeking help for our mental health issues. But we have to. Living with poor mental health can be miserable, and for many of us it can be fatal – suicide is the number one cause of death in the UK in men under 45.

Movember is a global movement dedicated to improving men’s mental health and reducing suicide. As part of our contribution to Movember, we’re talking openly about men’s mental health, including where to get help and support for mental health problems.

What is mental health?

If physical health is the health of your body, mental health is the health of what happens in your head. It includes your thoughts, emotions, motivations, and your ability to think and remember clearly.

If you have good mental health, you can be productive in your work, enjoy your pastimes, develop and deepen relationships, cope with the stress and difficulties your life throws at you, and plan for the future. You may not feel happy all the time, but you can feel happiness and other positive emotions.

If you have problems with your mental health, you may stop enjoying activities you used to enjoy. You may socially isolate and struggle to cope with stress and difficulties. You might stop feeling positive emotions and find it hard to envision a happy future too. Depending on the symptoms of mental health problems, they can be diagnosed as specific conditions like depression, anxiety, and bipolar disorder.

Just as poor physical health can make it difficult to live the life you want, the same is true for poor mental health. Too many men are struggling to live with poor mental health and aren’t getting the help they deserve.

What are the 4 types of mental illness?

There are many different types of mental illness, but the four most common mental disorders include anxiety disorders, depression, bipolar disorder, and psychotic disorders like schizophrenia. Eating disorders are also a common form of mental health disorder. These include anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa, and binge eating disorder.

Who is most likely to have a mental illness?

In the UK, women are generally more likely to have a mental illness (23% of women) than men (17% of men). Although, as men are less likely to seek help for mental health problems, these figures may not be accurate. Men are more likely to have mental health problems if they’re single, feel socially isolated, are unemployed or underemployed, or have physical health problems.

Men and mental health: Why don’t men talk about mental health?

This is a complex issue with lots of factors involved, and it varies from man to man. But a big part of this is mental health stigma that many men feel is caused by:

Society’s expectation of men: This is deep, pervasive, and really difficult to counter. The chances are, all your life you’ve been told that men are supposed to be strong, stoic, and not overly emotional. We get it in TV, films, books, and from our family, friend, and partners. Because of this, admitting we have mental health issues, even to ourselves, may be difficult. We may think it makes us less masculine.

This is nonsense, obviously. Men can be equally as emotional as women, and having mental health issues and seeking help for them has nothing to do with masculinity. But although it’s easy to say this, we know it’s much harder to overcome these sorts of traditional expectations in reality.

We aren’t taught to understand our thoughts and emotions: Stemming from the above issue, men are usually given less encouragement and opportunities to be introspective and to talk about what’s going on in our heads. Because of this, we’re often less likely to realise we have mental health problems, and we find it hard to talk about them. We may turn to drink and drugs. We might get angry and aggressive without knowing we need help and how to ask for it.

How many men have mental health problems?

Mental health statistics vary, but around 17% of men in the UK are living with mental health problems. Although this is lower than the 23% of women in the UK, men are traditionally less likely than women to talk about their mental health and to seek help, so the real number may be higher than 17%.

How to improve your mental health?

Mental health issues can be tough to get over and can feel insurmountable at times. However, the good news is that there are plenty of things you can do to improve your mental health.

Everyone responds differently to treatments and a lot depends on the specifics of your condition. You may have to experiment to find out what works best for you, but the following ideas are good places to start:

Seek professional help

If you’re struggling with your mental health, a good place to start your treatment is with your GP. They can make an initial diagnosis and help by:

Make positive lifestyle changes

Making changes to your lifestyle to improve your overall health can also be effective for your mental health. We tend to separate physical health and mental health, but the reality is your mental health partly depends on your physical health. You can try:

Socialise

If your mental health is suffering, your reaction may be to socially isolate yourself. However, this often makes the problem worse. Stick to people who make you feel good and avoid people who don’t if you can.

Try to relax and enjoy yourself

Your life might be busy, and you might have many demands on your time, but you need to carve some space to relax and enjoy yourself if you want to have good mental health. You need to find ways to regularly de-stress and bring some fun into your life. These will vary by person – it could be watching football, going to the cinema, participating in extreme sports, or cooking. Whatever it is, you can’t feel guilty about it, and you must think of it as an important way to look after your mental health.

Where to find support?

You don’t have to face your mental health issues alone. There are a number of options if you need help and support or to talk to someone.

We recommend you talk to your doctor, as they can refer you to specialists that can diagnose you and get you the treatments you need.

There’s also a wealth of support you can find online. Movember is dedicated to improving men’s mental health and is a good place to start. They’ve also collected together a whole range of other support resources available to you. The NHS also has a comprehensive list of mental health charities.